Is there always a Silver Lining?

I don't understand....there are three kids...most people would call two of them "young adults" but they are still kids. They depend on their parents, they shouldn't have to worry about finances and house payments and taking care of their little brother like a mother would. I can't even imagine what it would be like to lose both of my parents in a tragic accident. What the heck are you supposed to do after that?! there is no speedy recovery. There is no one there to look after you, for you to ask for advice. Your father isnt there to walk you down the isle or be grandparents to your children. You never think it can happen to you, you never think it will happen to people you know. You dont realize how horrible it actually is until you are there sitting on the couch with their daughter and shes telling you that this 22 year old kid just didnt LOOK!. its THAT simple! you roll through a stop sign without looking! How easy it is to take three childrens parents away forever. do end their lives as they know it. To cause them so much grief and difficulty. I dont even know what else to say. I jsut needed to write something. the only other time i have felt so much pain in my heart is when my own sister died. And these arnt even my parents. Just Imagine how these kids feel! Can you? Can you really? I really dont think you can. I want to know why, Why would God take them like this. So much pain. I know there has to be some kind of good to come of this. but i cant see the silver lining yet. where is it God? please reveal it to those kids! They need ANYTHING to keep them going.